I'm still as short fused as ever! Still gets frustrated easily. I don't know why. Hmm, perhaps I need to change. I don't know.
Is it me or is it others? Are my expectations overwhelming? Am I wanting too much? Too demanding?
Saturday, January 9, 2010
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Friday, January 1, 2010
Men & Sex
Yeap, these 2 words come together and they shall never be separated as long as the Earth is round!
Men think of sex, 24/7. If we're not doing it, we're thinking about it!
In any grown-up relationships, sex is fundamental. Since (generally) men's sex drive is higher than women (we're programmed that way), women become the "determinant" on whether we will have sex or not. Also, foreplay is most important. Not only to women, but also to men. We don't just want to jump in and go to town. We want to enjoy the process. If we do jump straight into the wagon and go to town, highly likely, we don't enjoy it and voila, we'll still be frustrated. Why? It's no longer enjoyable but somewhat of a stress thing... Get ready, go, get it done, wrap up!!! Big No.
From what I've read online regarding statistics of successful relationships, couples who have sex more than 3 times a week tend to have longer, healthier relationships. I also recall reading an article about how men become frustrated and ultimately their relationships were affected:-
Man wanted to have sex...
Partner didn't want to have sex...
(asked a few times and was turned down)...
(man thought that it's ok. can tolerate. after all, relationship is not all about sex)..
(a few days have gone by)...
Finally, they had sex!
(the above repeats, albeit without the sex)...
(the above cycle, with sex, continued).
(after less than a year, the rock solid relationship tumbled.)
So was the tale that was told online by one of the anonymous guy in the States. (i'll get hold of the article on this story and/or the articles on the theory of men & sex once I find it again).
So there, we as the male species, builds relationships based on (partly) sex. We love you very much but we're still men.
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